Just to get things started. This thread will be kept as an 'open depository' as this knowledge is found and to keep it from being lost to the depths of the internet and my horrible note taking.
Anyone is free to contribute.
For most of the common connectors you can find if you look hard enough a 'repair connector' somewhere but that is not always the best solution if you are making a new harness or want to replace a complete section of something and minimize the number of cut-n-splice locations.
Online suppliers such as Digi-key, Newark, Allied and Mouser are good sources for finding the 'raw materials' if you have good, known part numbers from the mfg.
These two connectors fall under the metri-pack 150.2 series aka the 'pull to seat' or P2S family. all necessary seals are included with the housing.
4 way idle speed motor connector. Delphi P/N 12162188
2 way Coolant temp sensor connector (the one that tells the computer whats going on) Delphi P/N 12162193
Pull to seat terminals for usage in above connectors. Delphi p/n 12124075 for 16-18 gauge wire. Delphi p/n 12124076 for 20-22 gauge wire.
This falls under the metri-pack 280 series of connectors.
9004 and 9007 type headlight bulb connector. Delphi p/n 12048369. That is the p/n for just the bare housing, No gasket, wire seals, terminals or secondary locking devices are included.
Wire seals
15324981 "Blue" seal for 12 AWG.
15324980 "Grey" seal for 14-16 AWG
Terminals
12077413 10-12 AWG
12129493 12-14 AWG
12077411 16-18 AWG
Gasket/seal for the connector housing
12048370 Qty 1 per housing needed
Terminal position assurance lock
12048371 Qty 1 per housing needed
Dorman 85378. package of 10 terminals.
It includes two of the Power module spring connectors
two of the socket and two of the pin type terminals used underneath the hood
two of the flat blade and flat socket type terminals used underneath the hood and at the bulkhead connection.
These terminals appear to be obsolete in the sense that all of the online resellers are either listing them as discontinued or available until stock is depleted if they are listed by their individual/original chrysler p/n. Dorman seems to be consolidating them down and only selling them in the variety pack now instead of individually by p/n in packages of 5 like they did in the past.
Delphi series 58 p/n 02965470 (12-14 gauge wire) Brass 1/4" flat socket terminals used on various connections throughout the car. Some known examples being the headlight switch connector, the SBEC-1 diagnostic connector. Probably many other applications as well.
Standard motor products CG49 is another option for the 1/4" flat socket terminal. It is plated instead of bare brass like the Delphi series 58 offering. Credit to Jeff1234 for identifying that option.
SBEC/SMEC?/EATX 60 way connector plug replacement socket terminals.
Ford p/n E7EB-14487-AA, Or Sterling/Freightliner/Western Star 23-13211-400 for 18-20 gauge, 23-13211-401 for 14-16 gauge. Thank you to "krut" for the commercial truck part numbers.
Molex 33088-0009. Edit: This part number is obsolete.
Delphi Apex 2.8 General information. Here