The new computer made no difference.. I got thinking again about the ASD circuit.
I made a jumper wire and jumped where the relay made contact and then added 12v from the battery it fired up..
Fuel pump came on and now has spark! works perfectly.. don't know where the circuit is loosing 12v but I ran my jumper to a switched 12 at the fuse box and it works fine now.. also made my relay jumper more permanent..
Thanks everyone for all your help! would not have figured it out without you guys!
- - - Updated - - -Good thing the computer was used and only only $35.00 and I can send it back !!