Need some suggestions on getting the solder to hold on the wire of my VNT's engine harness. The wires I am soldering adhere greatly to the solder itself (or the other way around), but the big wire they connect to just plain won't adhere. It's like it's teflon coated. The solder I am using has the rosin in it and is part silver solder.... but I guess I need a flux. What kind do I look for? I have some flux for house plumbing water lines...