I've read about this before, and marked my plugs today to see if I could get them lined up properly, and sure enough, cylinders 2 and 3 are exactly like everyone has said, which is not lined up without a washer to raise the threads.
What have people used successfully, and is there any worthwhile benefit, aside from consistency between cylinders?
EDIT: Here's a picture. If you look closely, the black lines are at the BOTTOM of the electrode, so I want them to be down, so the plug is facing the rest of the head.